In August 2017, Tony Alarcon’s phone rang unexpectedly.
Like many parents, he thought it might be a telemarketer. But this time, he answered the call.
Hearing from the school can be nerve-wracking for any parent. Tony immediately started worrying—was his daughter, Demetra, okay? Had something happened?
What he found out left him surprised.
It was a hot summer day in Northern California, with temperatures reaching 90 degrees. Tony had dropped off his 13-year-old daughter, Demetra, at school that morning. She wore a blue romper to stay cool in the heat, and neither of them thought the outfit would cause any issues.
Demetra, a student at Raymond J. Fisher Middle School in Los Gatos, California, had simply dressed for the weather.
Not everyone agreed with Demetra’s outfit. A teacher at her school said her romper was “too distracting” for the boys.
When the teacher told Demetra that her outfit was too short, her dad, Tony, rushed back to the school with a change of clothes—jean shorts and a tank top. But the school said those clothes were also inappropriate.
Tony was shocked. He asked Demetra to bend over and touch her toes in front of the school administrator. “Nothing is hanging out. There’s nothing inappropriate. I don’t understand this dress code rule,” he told TODAY.
Still, the school said her clothes were “distracting.” Since it was 90 degrees outside, Tony had no choice but to go to his car and grab a pair of leggings for Demetra to wear.
Demetra felt embarrassed.
Tony expressed his frustration, saying, “She’s just a kid. She’s only 13. She’s not trying to be a sex symbol. She just wants to be comfortable and attend class, but we’re not giving her that chance.”
This wasn’t the first time Demetra had been in trouble for her clothes. Just a week before, she was called out for a visible bra strap. “When I got dress coded last week, they said my bra strap was showing,” Demetra told the *San Jose Mercury News*. “Like, I’m wearing a bra—what’s the big deal?”
Tony, a successful investment advisor and father of two, didn’t let it go. Angry at what he saw as an unfair rule that mostly targeted girls, he took his complaint to social media. Parents from all over the country showed their support, agreeing that the school’s dress code was outdated and unfair to girls.
“Demetra’s not the only one. If you sit in the school parking lot, you’ll see that,” Tony said. “Lots of girls just want to be comfortable, but they feel forced to wear leggings even when it’s 100 degrees outside.”
Tony believed that parents, not schools, should decide if their children’s clothes are appropriate. He was also worried about how being told their clothing is a “distraction” to boys could affect young girls emotionally in the long run.
The story quickly got attention from the media, with major news outlets reporting on Tony’s efforts to change the dress code. While the school didn’t speak on camera, they did release a statement:
“The Los Gatos Union School District believes that appropriate dress and grooming contribute to a productive learning environment,” the district said. “Students are expected to wear clothes that reflect the core values of our learning community.”
Tony’s efforts made an impact. His push for change led the Los Gatos Union School District to reevaluate its dress code to make it fairer and less strict for all students.
Lisa Fraser, the school’s principal, explained that the dress code rules, called “Fashion Faux Pas,” apply to both girls and boys. Some of the rules include no hats or hoods indoors, no visible underwear, no inappropriate logos or words, and shorts must have at least 4-inch inseams.
“There has always been a dress code,” Fraser told a newspaper. “These are basic rules for appropriate behavior. I can set guidelines for the school, but I want them to reflect the community’s values.”
In the end, Tony Alarcon’s persistence started an important discussion about how school dress codes affect young girls — showing that one parent’s voice can truly make a difference.
What do you think about the school’s dress code? Have you or your children faced a similar situation? Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments!
His charm and good looks made all the ladies drool. Now he is 94, this is how he looks today
Robert Wagner was born on February 10, 1930, in Detroit, Michigan. His family moved to Los Angeles when he was seven, which set the stage for his future career in Hollywood.
Wagner developed an early interest in acting and landed his first film role in “The Happy Years” (1950) after being discovered by a talent scout.
Hollywood Success
Robert Wagner’s career took off in the 1950s, with significant roles in films like “With a Song in My Heart” (1952) and “Titanic” (1953). His charm and good looks made him a popular leading man. Throughout the 1960s and 1970s, he continued to build his reputation with roles in movies such as “Harper” (1966) and “The Pink Panther” (1963).
Television Stardom
Wagner is perhaps best known for his extensive television career. He starred in several successful TV series, including “It Takes a Thief” (1968-1970), where he played the suave thief-turned-spy Alexander Mundy.
In the 1970s, he found further success with “Switch” (1975-1978) and “Hart to Hart” (1979-1984), where he played the charming and wealthy Jonathan Hart, alongside Stefanie Powers. These roles solidified his status as a television icon.
Personal Life
Robert Wagner’s personal life has been as intriguing as his career. He was married three times, twice to actress Natalie Wood, whose tragic death in 1981 remains a topic of public fascination.
In 1990, he married actress Jill St. John, and the couple has been together ever since. Wagner’s enduring marriage to St. John and their frequent collaborations highlight their strong personal and professional bond.
Later Career and Legacy
In the later years of his career, Wagner continued to work in television and film, making memorable appearances in shows like “Two and a Half Men” and “NCIS.” He also wrote his autobiography, “Pieces of My Heart,” published in 2008, offering insights into his life and career.
Robert Wagner’s contribution to the entertainment industry spans over six decades, making him a beloved and enduring figure in Hollywood. His versatility and charm have left an indelible mark on both film and television, ensuring his legacy will be remembered for generations to come.
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