The life story of Patrick Hardison from Mississippi is nothing less than a mind-blowing one. This man is the first American who has received a face transplant back in 2015 after his face and neck were left completely disfigured during a house fire.
Patrick’s life was a great one up until the day the tragedy struck in 2001.
He worked as a volunteer firefighter earlier in his life, so when he got called to help with a house fire, he didn’t hesitate. Sadly, once he entered the burning place, it collapsed on top of him and trapped him. He couldn’t move and his torso and face were severely burnt.
“[My mask] was melting to my face,” Patrick recalled. “My hose [was] already melted.”
“For somebody who does what we do for a living, I’ve never seen anybody burned that bad that was still alive,” friend and first responder Jimmy Neal told CBS News of seeing Patrick after the accident.
Patrick suffered third degree burns on his face and scalp. He also sustained burns to his head, neck, and upper torso. The fire also claimed his ears, lips, most of his nose, and even most of his eyelid tissue.
“I didn’t actually see myself until probably November. I got injured in September,” Patrick told Fox News. “They had cut a little pinhole in one of my eyelids because they had everything covered, skin graft. I looked in the mirror and all I could do, I said, ‘this is it? I can’t do this,’” he recalled.
Over the years, this man was forced to undergo over 70 surgeries, as well as other procedures. He couldn’t close his eyes and doctors were able to put together flaps of skin to protect his vision, but he was still facing the risk of going blind.
Patrick couldn’t eat without feeling excruciating pain. He just couldn’t get used to this life because he couldn’t look at himself in the mirror. Wherever he went, everyone starred at him, and he could barely stand being around people, even his children.
In order to hide and protect himself, Patrick wore sunglasses and a baseball cap all the time. He also had ear prosthetic.
“I had kids. It was just a tough time. I never got a day off from the injury. When you walk out in public, it was daily. And, you know, it’s just so — there’s no way to explain everything,” he told Yahoo! Sports.
“You go to the ball field, you have to prepare yourself for the kid that goes running off screaming.”
Years went by and Patrick lost hope of ever having a normal life. But then, French woman named Isabelle Dinoire received a partial face transplant after her face was severely disfigured by her pet dog. This procedure was revolutionary. It was the first ever of that kind. Surely, it gave a glimpse of hope to Patrick who at that point was truly struggling.
Patrick met doctor Eduardo D. Rodriguez from the NYU Langone Medical Center in New York who told him he would do the transplant surgery if they find a matching donor. It wasn’t easy, but one day, out of the blue, a donor appeared. LiveOnNY, a nonprofit that coordinates organ donations in the New York area, had found a match. The face Patrick was about to get belonged to 26-year-old David Rodebaugh who had sustained a massive head injury in a bike accident and had been declared brain dead.
This young man’s mother, Nancy Millar, decided to donate her son’s organs, including his face. “I said, ‘You better save his face. He has the face of a porcelain doll.’ And he’s a donor — we had talked about it,” Millar told People.
The thought of someone receiving her son’s face meant that David would continue to live on through the people whose lives he was about to save, including Patrick’s.
“When I met Patrick, I saw this strength, this strong, manly, burly kind of energy in him — that David had,” Nancy recalled.
“David wanted to be a firefighter, an I knew if this guy was a firefighter — he was willing to walk into a fire to save people and risk his own life — then he had the strength that David had.”
Finally, the day of the transplant surgery had arrived. The procedure lasted for 26 long hours and was performed by a team of 100 professionals.
The risk was enormous and Patrick was given a 50/50 percent chance of survival. Luckily, it was a huge success. Patrick received a new face, scalp, ears, and ear canals. He also received eyelids which allowed him to blink naturally and save his vision.
“Everything in life has a risk,” Patrick told Time Magazine.
“When it’s your time to go, you’ll go—whether you’re walking down the street and get hit by a car or you’re lying on the operating table.”
After he recovered from the swelling and he learned how to talk and swallow again, Patrick met his donor’s mother. Nancy only had one request, to kiss Patrick on the forehead.
“I said, ‘Can I kiss your forehead?’” Nancy said. “That’s the one thing I wanted to do because every night before David went to bed when he was little, I kissed his forehead.”
“I’ve been waiting a year to meet her. I’m just very grateful,” Patrick added. “Without her, it wouldn’t have been possible. It’s like she’s family. We connected that easily.”
Ever since the surgery, Patrick is taking anti-rejection drugs that prevent his immune system from rejecting the face, but he’s thriving. He didn’t only receive a new face but a new life too.
Today, he is divorced and is working on a book which he hopes would serve as an inspiration to anyone who believes there is no way out from the situation they have found themselves in. “Because I want to show the world that you can have hope. I wouldn’t want people that were like me years ago to think that’s it, I have to live like this. You don’t. You can accomplish anything,” Patrick says.
His survival and his recovery are dubbed miraculous. Thanks to Nancy, Dr. Rodriguez and his team, and Patrick’s strong will, today, he is a happy man.
My Son’s Response to a Customer Screaming at His Favorite Cashier Brought Everyone in the Store to Tears
My Son’s Response to a Customer Screaming at His Favorite Cashier Brought Everyone in the Store to Tears
In a world filled with noise, chaos, and fleeting moments, there are some encounters that leave an indelible mark on our hearts. Picture this: a supermarket, a timid boy, and a cashier who became his unexpected hero. As tensions rise and voices clash, watch how one courageous act from a special young boy brings an entire store to a standstill.
William and his mom in the supermarket | Source: Midjourney
The supermarket doors slid open with a soft whoosh, and I could already feel William’s tiny hand tighten around mine. My son William is special in ways that break and heal my heart. He doesn’t talk much and is terrified of strangers.
The jarring sound of a busy store can send him spiraling into a meltdown, but today, like every other shopping trip, he was surprisingly calm.
The reason? Rachel.
William’s mother carrying him while shopping in a supermarket | Source: Midjourney
Rachel was a cashier, but to William, she was a beacon of light in the overwhelming storm of the supermarket. The first time we met her, she greeted us with the warmest smile. William, who usually hid behind my legs, had peeked out and given her a shy wave.
That was all it took. Since then, Rachel has become his favorite part of our shopping trips. He would insist on handing her the money and even help her pack our bags with diligence that melted the hardest of hearts.
Rachel greeting William | Source: Midjourney
“Mom,” William said, tugging at my hand as we navigated through the aisles. “Do you think Rachel is working today?”
“I hope so, sweetheart,” I replied, smiling down at him. “I’m sure she’ll be happy to see you.”
He grinned, his eyes lighting up. “I like Rachel. She always talks to me and lets me help.”
“Yes, she’s very kind,” I agreed, my heart warming at his enthusiasm.
“Can I give her the money today?” William asked, his voice filled with hopeful excitement.
William holding money | Source: Midjourney
“Of course, you can,” I assured him. “You’re getting really good at it.”
As we approached the checkout area, William started scanning the lines for Rachel. His eyes brightened when he spotted her familiar curly red hair and kind eyes. “There she is, Mom! Let’s go to Rachel’s line!”
“Alright, let’s get in line,” I said, steering the cart towards Rachel’s register, even though it was the longest one. Waiting was never a problem when it came to Rachel. For William, it was worth every second.
William and his mom standing in a supermarket queue | Source: Midjourney
William bounced on his toes, barely able to contain his excitement. “Do you think she’ll remember me, Mom?”
“I’m sure she will,” I said, giving his hand a reassuring squeeze.
When it was finally our turn, Rachel greeted us with her usual warmth. “Hey there, William! How are you today?”
“Hi, Rachel!” William beamed, stepping forward. “I’m good. Can I give you the money today?”
“Absolutely, William,” Rachel said with a smile. “I’ve been looking forward to it.”
William handing money to Rachel | Source: Midjourney
As we chatted and packed our bags, I couldn’t help but feel a swell of gratitude. In this chaotic world, there were still kind souls like Rachel who made it a little brighter for kids like William.
“Mom, can we come back to see Rachel next time?” William asked as we left the store, clutching his small bag of snacks.
“Of course, sweetheart,” I replied, smiling down at him. “We”ll always come back to see Rachel.”
William and his mother leaving the supermarket | Source: Midjourney
One Saturday afternoon, after picking up our essential items in the supermarket, we were standing in the cash register line when I noticed an elderly man in front of us. His face was red with frustration, and his voice grew louder with each passing second.
“This is ridiculous!” he bellowed, slamming his fist on the counter. “I’ve been using this voucher for years! You can’t just change the rules like this!”
Elderly man shouting at Rachel | Source: Midjourney
Rachel, ever calm and composed, tried to soothe him. “I’m really sorry, sir, but the policy has changed. The voucher expired last month, and I’m not able to override the system.”
The man’s face contorted in anger. “Do you think I’m lying? This is theft! You’re stealing from me!”
Rachel’s voice remained gentle. “I understand your frustration, sir. Let me call the manager…”
“I don’t want a manager!” he shouted, cutting her off. “I want you to fix this now!”
Rachel trying to calm an angry customer | Source: Midjourney
I held William’s hand closer, feeling his grip tighten. I knew how scared he could get in unusual situations like this. His breathing quickened, and I could see the panic starting to set in.
“It’s okay, William. Just stay with me,” I whispered, hoping to soothe him.
“Mom, why is he so angry?” William asked, his voice trembling.
“Some people get upset over little things,” I explained softly. “But it’s not right to yell at others. Rachel is just doing her job.” William nodded, his eyes still fixed on the scene unfolding before us.
William and his mother having a conversation | Source: Midjourney
“William, let’s just wait it out,” I said, trying to distract him. “Rachel will be okay.”
But William seemed to have made up his mind. He let go of my hand, his face set with determination. “Mom, I have to help her.”
Before I could react, he rushed towards Rachel, his small frame standing between her and the annoyed customer.
“Stop yelling at her!” William’s voice was loud and clear, his eyes fierce. The entire line fell silent, everyone watching this unexpected turn of events.
Angry William standing up for Rachel | Source: Midjourney
The old man looked taken aback, his anger momentarily diffused by the sight of the brave little boy standing up for Rachel. “What’s this?” he muttered, bewildered.
“What’s your name, kid?” the old man asked, his tone softening slightly.
“William,” he replied, standing his ground. “And you shouldn’t yell at Rachel. She’s nice.”
Rachel looked down at William, her eyes wide with surprise and gratitude. “William, it’s okay,” she said softly, reaching out to touch his shoulder. “Thank you, but I’ve got this.”
Rachel and William having a heartwarming moment | Source: Midjourney
William shook his head. “No, he shouldn’t yell at you.”
The old man sighed, his shoulders slumping. “Fine, keep your discount,” he grumbled, turning away and walking out of the store.
The whole line seemed to exhale collectively as I rushed to William, wrapping my arms around him. “Are you okay, buddy?” I asked, my voice shaking.
William nodded, his expression still serious. “I didn’t want him to hurt Rachel.”
William and his mom hugging | Source: Midjourney
Rachel crouched down to William’s level, her eyes soft. “Thank you, William. You’re my hero today.” She handed him a small piece of candy from behind the counter. “For being so brave.”
William took the candy, a shy smile creeping onto his face. “Thanks, Rachel.”
At that moment, a ripple of applause spread through the line. People smiled and whispered to each other, moved by William’s bravery.
Crowd in a supermarket cheering | Source: Midjourney
A woman behind us stepped forward and ruffled William’s hair. “You did a good thing, young man. You stood up for what’s right.”
An older gentleman gave William a thumbs-up. “Way to go, kid! We need more people like you.”
Strangers smiled at William and tried to buy him more candy, but he got shy all over again as if nothing had happened. The bits of adrenaline were gone, and he seemed very tired all of a sudden.
William’s mother carrying him | Source: Midjourney
As we walked to the car, William clung to my hand, his energy waning. “Mom, did I do okay?” he asked, looking up at me with wide eyes.
I knelt down to his level and hugged him tightly. “You did more than okay, sweetheart. You stood up for a friend, and that’s one of the bravest things anyone can do”
William’s mother hugging him in the parking lot | Source: Midjourney
As we drove home, I reflected on the day’s events. William had shown me that even in the face of fear, kindness, and courage shone through.
It was a powerful reminder that sometimes, the smallest voices can make the biggest impact. And in a world that can often be harsh and unforgiving, it’s these moments of compassion that bring us all closer together.
William and his mother hugging | Source: Midjourney
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