My Best Friend Gave Me the Wrong Dress Code for Her Wedding – I Decided to Outplay Her Smartly
When Emily’s friend, Elle, gets engaged to her boyfriend, Brian, she is completely over the moon. Emily does everything she can to help Elle plan her dream wedding. But then Elle starts acting secretive and gives Emily a wedding invite with the incorrect dress code. Thankfully, a mutual colleague gives Emily the correct details, allowing her to show up to the wedding to teach Elle a lesson.
“I’m engaged, Em!” Elle said, rushing through my door while I was sitting on the couch and reading a book.
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“What?” I exclaimed, standing up to hug her tightly. “I’m so happy for you, my girl!”
Elle sat down on the couch and showed me her hand.
“Look at this rock!” she said.
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Of course, I was over the moon for her. We’d been through so much together, and now it was her turn to walk down the aisle.
For my wedding, a few years ago, Elle had been right by my side. She helped me plan every little detail, from the font on my wedding invitations to the menu selections.
“It’s more like you and Elle are getting married,” my husband, Grant, laughed one evening when I told him everything that Elle and I had planned.
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“Well, she’s been around longer than you,” I replied, showing him the mockup for our wedding invitations.
And it was true, Elle and I had been friends since our childhood, having lived on the same street and gone to the same kindergarten together.
We shared every major milestone, from awkward teenage years to college graduation, together.
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We even ended up working at the same company, making sure to have lunch and tea breaks together every day.
So, naturally, I expected her to be just as involved in her wedding planning as she was in mine.
“Brian and I don’t want to be engaged for too long,” she said one day at the office while we were having tea and pastries.
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“So, we’re planning for the wedding to be in a few months.”
“That’s a lot to do in a few months, Elle,” I said, sipping my tea.
“I know,” she agreed. “But you’ll help me!”
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As the weeks went by, Elle asked me for advice on the venue, the dance, and the flowers.
“I need it to be perfect, Em,” she said. “Brian and I are the only children of our parents, so this is the only chance they’re going to get to be parents of the bride and groom.”
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I helped her wherever I could. I booked visits of stunning venues that she could see. I booked her appointment with the florist who had done all the flowers at my wedding. And I arranged for her to meet my choreographer for her first dance with Brian.
“I don’t know how I could have done any of this without you,” Elle said, holding my hand.
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But that’s not the best part of this story.
Despite our shared history and all the assistance I had given Elle throughout her wedding planning process, she didn’t tell me anything about the actual wedding.
“I want to keep the location a secret,” she said sheepishly, a small smile on her face. “I want it to be a surprise. So, you’ll know when the invites come out.”
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And yet, when the invitations came out, I never received mine.
“Darling,” I asked Grant when I got home one day. “Did Elle’s wedding invitation come in the post?”
“No,” he said, looking up from his tablet. “Shouldn’t she have just given it to you?”
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“I thought so, but I’m not sure where our invitation is.”
“Ask her, love,” my husband said.
I was puzzled, but I didn’t want to jump to conclusions.
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So, I asked her directly.
“Oh, right,” she said, looking a bit uncomfortable. “I must have forgotten. I don’t have any on me at the moment, but I’ll bring one for you tomorrow!”
The next day, Elle handed me an invite. To my surprise, the dress code was “Mermaid.”
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“Like the cartoon character?” I said aloud.
It seemed bizarre, but Elle had always loved that cartoon, so I tried to rationalize it.
“Maybe she’s going for a whimsical theme?” I muttered, thinking about a mermaid-themed wedding.
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But still, I planned my outfit for Elle’s wedding.
It was about a week before the wedding when our colleague, Jane, and I were standing outside during one of our tea breaks and chatting.
“I’m actually looking forward to getting all dressed up,” Jane said. “It’s been a while since I put on a good pair of heels and did my makeup for fun and not work.”
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“What do you mean? Is your costume all sorted?” I asked.
“What costume?” Jane asked, her reaction priceless; she looked at me like I had lost my mind.
“Elle’s invitation said that the dress code was mermaid-themed,” I said.
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“I think she’s joking with you,” Jane laughed. “My invitation said ‘Cocktail’ as the dress code.”
My heart sank.
Elle was setting me up, but why?
For the next few days, I kept my head down, barely interacting with Elle.
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I was feeling sidelined and hurt. We’d always been honest with each other, so why was she doing this now?
I remembered how supportive she was during my wedding and couldn’t understand why she didn’t want me involved in hers.
On the day of the wedding, I arrived in a long, elegant gray dress.
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Grant and I sat at the back, away from the crowd, and we watched the beautiful ceremony unfold. I wondered why I wasn’t a bridesmaid.
But it was only during the reception, when Elle saw me, that the truth came out.
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“What the hell are you wearing?” she demanded when she saw me.
The guests around us glanced at us and each other, sensing the tension.
“You know, I really thought that ‘mermaids’ as the wedding theme was a bit extreme. But then Jane showed me her invitation.”
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Elle’s face went through a range of emotions, finally settling on a strained calm.
“Em… I guess it was a mistake,” she said.
“Stop pretending,” I said, my voice firm but gentle. “I’m your friend. It’s your wedding. What’s going on?”
She hesitated, her eyes darting around before finally meeting mine.
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“Em,” she said slowly. “I was afraid that you’d outshine me. Everyone keeps talking about how perfect your wedding was and how beautiful you looked. I didn’t want to feel like I was in your shadow on my own day.”
I looked at her carefully, trying to process her words.
“My own mother kept talking about how wonderful your wedding was and that I should listen to you about everything,” she continued.
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“Elle, you never had to compete with me. Your wedding is beautiful, and so are you. We’re friends, remember? I would never try to overshadow you.”
Tears welled up in her eyes.
“I’m so sorry, Em,” she choked. “I let my insecurities get the best of me.”
I pulled her into a hug.
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“Everything is perfect,” I said. “You’ve planned your dream wedding, and it has all fallen into place. Now, come on. Let’s enjoy this day together, like we’ve always done.”
The tension melted away, and the awkwardness dissolved as we shared a genuine moment of reconciliation.
Grant and I sat at a table away from the crowd.
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“Are things okay with you and Elle?” Grant asked me.
“I think so,” I smiled. “But I think that there’s bigger things we need to discuss, too. I just want to make sure that we’re on the right page. That can wait until after her honeymoon.”
My husband took my hand and squeezed it gently.
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What would you have done?
This teen heartthrob deemed as gay basically vanished after, Home Improvement, Well, after all these years he is finally surfaced again, and users say he is barely recognizable, My goodness, he looks so different
At the height of his fame, a beloved teen heartthrob made a shocking decision to step away from the Hollywood spotlight, leaving countless young fans yearning for more.
This former star of a popular 90s sitcom, who recently celebrated his 43rd birthday, was last seen in 2023, prompting nostalgia and disbelief among those who once had a crush on him.
So, what happened to the enigmatic actor known for voicing a classic Disney character in a beloved animated film? Dive in to uncover the story behind this mysterious figure!
He first caught the spotlight as Greg Brady’s son on the 1990 TV series The Bradys, a spinoff of The Brady Bunch. However, his true breakthrough arrived shortly after when he secured a role in a popular sitcom alongside a famous comedian, propelling him to stardom.
Only 10 years old when the show premiered in 1991, Thomas grew up on-screen as Randy, the middle child, during the show’s eight-year run. His charm and charisma propelled him to teen idol status, winning the hearts of millions.
Reflecting on his fame, Thomas told The New York Times, “You’re part of their lives, and there’s a lot owed to them. But it’s hard because you want to make everyone happy, and if you try, you set yourself up for failure.”
In 1994, at the age of 12, Thomas voiced the character Simba in Disney’s The Lion King, a role that resonated deeply with fans worldwide.
“Simba’s a lot like me,” Thomas once shared, explaining how he used his natural energy to bring the character to life. “Curious, fun-loving, always getting into mischief.”
Juggling his time between The Lion King and Home Improvement, Thomas spent two intense years moving back and forth between the two productions. “I had to remind myself, ‘Oops! Time to be Randy,’ then, ‘Oops! Time to be Simba,’” he told People in 1994. “You have to prepare yourself to become a totally different person. I mean, we’re not lions, right?”
By 1998, after leaving Home Improvement before its final season, Thomas began to step out of the limelight. “I’ve done so many shows with full-blown migraines,” he said. “I’d been going nonstop since I was 8. I wanted to take a break, go to school, and travel.”
Over the next few years, Thomas made guest appearances on shows like Ally McBeal, Smallville, and 8 Simple Rules, and lent his voice to animated series such as The Wild Thornberrys and The Simpsons.
Before his exit from Hollywood, Thomas challenged himself with more mature roles, including playing a bisexual hustler in the indie film Speedway Junky (1999) and a persecuted gay teen in Showtime’s Common Ground (2000). These roles, coupled with his private nature, sparked rumors about his sexuality, which he addressed on The Tonight Show with Jay Leno.
“In Hollywood, you’re not really anyone until there’s a rumor you’re gay,” he said. “It didn’t bother me, but they’re just rumors. Be careful with that internet stuff.” He later told The Advocate that the rumors started on a site called CyberSleaze and were entirely false. “It was a blatant lie that snowballed, and people accepted it without question,” he said.
In the early 2000s, Thomas shocked fans by stepping away from Hollywood to pursue higher education. After graduating from New York’s Chaminade College Preparatory School in 2000, he attended Harvard University, where he studied philosophy and history, before later graduating from Columbia University in 2010.
“I never took fame too seriously,” Thomas said of his Hollywood career. “It was a great time in my life, but it doesn’t define me.” He admitted that walking through libraries and attending classes was a refreshing and novel experience for him.
Although he left Hollywood behind, Thomas reunited with Tim Allen for several guest appearances on Last Man Standing between 2013 and 2015, even directing a few episodes of the series.
In 2023, fans were once again buzzing after spotting Thomas walking his dogs in public. Dressed casually in a beige sweater, jeans, and a black toque, his appearance stirred nostalgic feelings among fans.
“JTT, my elementary school crush,” one fan gushed, while another reflected, “He was my childhood crush, and I’m glad he avoided the weirdness of Hollywood.”
A third fan added, “He was a child star and a teen heartthrob. Hollywood doesn’t treat child actors well, so who knows what he went through.”
Another fan, referencing his famous bowl cut from Home Improvement, quipped, “Of course, he looks different! Not many 42-year-olds are walking around with bowl haircuts. He brought joy to so many with his early career.”
Despite his rare public appearances, Jonathan Taylor Thomas remains a cherished figure from the 90s, remembered fondly for his work in Home Improvement and The Lion King, and for his decision to walk away from fame on his own terms.
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