Just a few months ago, Jolene felt lonely and thought she might never marry. And now, she was already imagining her wedding with Steve. However, Steve still hadn’t invited her to his place, almost as if he was hiding something. Jolene feared the worst, but what she discovered still surprised her.
Jolene and Steve strolled side by side, their hands comfortably entwined as they meandered down the quiet, lamp-lit street.
The cool evening breeze gently brushed their faces, and their shared laughter seemed to echo softly into the night.
Their relationship was still fresh, only two months in, but the warmth between them made it feel as though they’d known each other much longer
Jolene glanced at Steve, a teasing smile spreading across her lips.
“You know,” she began playfully, “I still can’t get over the first time I saw your profile picture on the dating app.”
Steve grinned, his eyes twinkling with curiosity.
“Oh yeah? What about it?”
Jolene laughed, shaking her head.
“The picture of you holding up that enormous fish! I couldn’t stop laughing. I thought, ‘Who is this guy, trying to impress people with his fishing skills?’”
Steve’s face flushed slightly, but he smiled, clearly amused by her teasing.
“Hey, that was a proud moment! That fish was huge! And besides,” he added, puffing his chest in mock pride, “I thought it showed I could provide, you know? A strong, capable man bringing home the catch.”
Jolene giggled at his playful tone, and they both laughed together. The easy chemistry between them made everything feel light and joyful.
Steve leaned in, pulling her close, and their laughter faded into a soft, tender kiss.
Jolene felt a rush of warmth as Steve’s arms wrapped around her, grounding her in the moment.
But then, just as things seemed perfect, Steve pulled back slightly.
“It’s getting late,” he said gently, his eyes glancing up the street. “I should call a taxi to get you home safely.”
Jolene felt a pang of confusion at his sudden shift in tone. They were having such a nice time, and she wasn’t ready for the night to end.
“Or,” she began, trying to keep her voice light, “maybe we could share a taxi? You know, head to your place together?”
Steve’s smile remained, but his body language shifted.
He scratched the back of his neck and gave her an apologetic look. “Actually, my place is really close by,” he said. “I’ll just walk.”
Jolene’s brows furrowed slightly, but she kept her tone playful. “Then let’s walk to your place together,” she suggested, genuinely curious.
After two months of dating, Steve still hadn’t invited her over, and she was beginning to wonder why. It felt like a natural step forward, yet Steve had been hesitant.
Steve’s smile faltered just a little, and he quickly looked down at his phone, tapping away to call her a cab.
“Maybe next time,” he mumbled, not meeting her eyes.
As the taxi pulled up a few minutes later, Jolene slid into the back seat, her mind swirling with questions. She couldn’t shake the uneasy feeling that Steve was holding something back.
What was stopping him from inviting her over? Did he have something to hide, or was he just not ready for a deeper commitment?
The ride home was quiet, with only the low hum of the engine accompanying her thoughts.
As the taxi drove away, Jolene leaned her head against the window, staring out into the dark streets, wondering if she was reading too much into things—or if her instincts were telling her something she needed to pay attention to.
The next morning, Jolene couldn’t shake the nagging feeling that something was off with Steve.
After their date the night before, where he once again dodged her offer to visit his place, her mind raced with possibilities.
Was it another woman? Or was he just too shy to take the next step? Jolene felt torn between trusting him and letting her doubts grow.
Finally, she decided she couldn’t sit around wondering anymore. She needed answers.
Jolene spent the morning baking a pie—her way of having a thoughtful excuse for an unexpected visit. If things got awkward, at least she could use the pie as a peace offering.
As she carefully placed the warm apple pie into a basket, she wondered what she might discover.
Was he keeping a secret? Was her gut feeling leading her down the wrong path? Dressed in a cute but casual outfit, she took a deep breath and called a taxi, heading to the address she’d managed to find.
As the taxi pulled up in front of Steve’s house, her heart started racing. She felt her hands tremble slightly as she grabbed the basket and walked up to the door.
The house looked quiet from the outside, a simple and cozy-looking place. Jolene took one more deep breath and knocked on the door, her ears straining for any sounds inside.
She heard footsteps, and then something that made her stomach twist—a woman’s voice. And, to her surprise, a child’s voice followed. Jolene’s heart raced faster, panic bubbling up inside her.
Could it be true? Was Steve hiding a family from her this whole time? Was that why he never invited her over?
Before she could think of what to say, the door opened slightly, and Steve stood there, his face pale with shock. His eyes widened when he saw her standing there, holding a pie.
“Jolene,” he stammered, clearly unprepared for her visit.
“What are you doing here?”
Jolene’s throat tightened, her mind buzzing with a thousand thoughts. “I thought I’d bring you a pie… you know, as a surprise,” she said, trying to keep her voice steady. But then her gaze shifted past Steve, into the house, where she could hear voices.
“But it sounds like you have company. Steve, just tell me the truth. Are you married? Do you have a family?” Her voice trembled, her worst fears threatening to spill over.
Steve took a deep breath, his face full of tension. Slowly, he opened the door wider, and Jolene’s heart sank as she braced herself for the worst.
“I was married,” Steve said quietly, his voice heavy with emotion.“But my wife passed away. I’m a widower.”Jolene blinked, trying to process the information. Before she could even respond, a little girl peeked out from behind Steve, looking up at Jolene with wide, curious eyes.“Hi!” the girl said brightly, completely unaware of the tension in the air. “I’m Lucy! Who are you?”Jolene’s heart softened instantly.She knelt down, smiling warmly at the little girl. “Hi, Lucy. I’m Jolene,” she said gently, trying to steady her voice.Lucy tugged on Steve’s shirt, her excitement bubbling over.
“Can she stay for dinner, Daddy? Please?” she asked, her eyes sparkling with hope.
Steve looked at Jolene, unsure of what to say. Jolene, still processing everything, gave a small nod, signaling that she was okay.
Steve seemed relieved as he stepped aside to let her in.
As Jolene entered the house, she wasn’t entirely sure what to expect, but at that moment, she knew that everything was about to change.
Inside, the warmth of the house wrapped around Jolene like a comforting hug. The scent of a freshly cooked meal filled the air, making the atmosphere feel welcoming and homey.
As Jolene took it all in, another little girl, younger than Lucy, peeked shyly from behind the dining table, her curious eyes watching.
“That’s Carla,” Steve said softly, introducing his younger daughter. Carla gave a small, shy wave before quickly hiding behind the chair again.
Jolene’s heart melted at the sight of both girls. They were adorable, and seeing them made everything fall into place.
Steve had been protecting not just himself but his daughters too.
Lucy, full of energy and confidence, bounced over and grabbed Jolene’s hand, pulling her toward the table.
“Come eat with us!” she chirped happily.
Jolene laughed, following the little girl to the table where the meal was already set. She sat down with them, and the girls began to chatter and giggle, sharing funny stories about their day.
Jolene couldn’t help but smile at their innocence and warmth.
Steve remained mostly quiet, watching Jolene with a thoughtful look in his eyes as she effortlessly interacted with his daughters.
For the first time since they started dating, Jolene felt like she finally understood why Steve had kept his home life hidden for so long. It wasn’t about secrets or distrust.
He was protecting something far more precious—his family.
It hit Jolene that Steve wasn’t just hesitant; he was trying to guard his heart and his children’s hearts, making sure they were safe before letting anyone in.
As the meal came to an end, the girls were sent off to bed, leaving Jolene and Steve alone at the table.
Steve fidgeted with his hands, clearly nervous about the conversation they were about to have.
“I didn’t know how to tell you,” Steve began, his voice soft.
“I didn’t want to scare you away. It’s been so hard raising them on my own since their mom passed. I was afraid you’d think it was too much to handle.”
Jolene gently squeezed Steve’s hand, looking him in the eyes with a reassuring smile. “I’m not going anywhere, Steve,” she said softly.
“I was worried you were hiding something awful, but now that I know the truth… I’m just relieved.”
Steve’s expression softened, and his surprise was evident. “You’re really okay with this? With… them?”
Jolene nodded, her voice calm and steady. “More than okay. Lucy and Carla are incredible, and I can’t wait to get to know them better. And you too, Steve, in this new way.”
Steve exhaled deeply, a smile slowly spreading across his face. It was as though a weight had lifted from his shoulders.
“Thank you,” he whispered, his gratitude clear in his eyes.
Jolene felt a warmth blooming in her chest, knowing that this moment was significant for both of them.
As she left his house that night, she realized that their relationship had shifted into something deeper.
They were no longer just two people dating—they were building something based on trust, honesty, and a future that felt more real tan she had ever imagined.
‘Families don’t have to match’ – Black couple share their journey to adopting three white children
Sadie and Jarvis Sampson tried everything for years to get pregnant, and eventually they accepted that they would only ever be aunt and uncle. Then, one day, they received a text that completely turned their world upside down.
Since getting married in January 2018, the pair has been trying to get pregnant, so when that didn’t work out naturally, they tried everything else.
The Houston mother told Love What Matters, “Ovulation tests, prenatal vitamins, cycle tracking apps, fertility monitors.”
“We didn’t even try our luck at following the unsolicited counsel of strangers, friends, and family. We tried, prayed, and waited for fourteen months. Month after Month. pregnancy test negative following negative test. It appeared like we would require help getting pregnant. We even went so far as to discuss it with medical professionals.
The couple seemed to get little assistance from the doctors. Sadie was advised by everyone that she would get pregnant if she reduced weight. Since she had no other options, she underwent gastric surgery and shed 28 pounds.
“She informed me that since she was unable to give me the fertility medication, she would refer me to a fertility specialist if I wasn’t pregnant within six months,” Sadie recalled. I was ecstatic to hear that. We finally received a response other than “no”! We were ecstatic to hear “not right now.”
Unfortunately, though, the couple felt as though they had begun over after Sadie lost the weight and they were unable to conceive.
Connecting the Dots – Adoption Puzzle Fundraising EventAs everyone is aware, we received a call regarding our little two weeks ago.
Published on Friday, August 30, 2019 by Sadie Sampson
Sadie said, “I had always felt like I was meant to be a mother.” “I was still not pregnant even though my surgeon had spent a long time to warn me about how fertile I would be following surgery. Thus, we gave up. We came to the realization that our only destiny was to be our nieces’ aunts and uncles and our goddaughters’ godparents.
The couple had just come to the painful conclusion that they would not be able to conceive when Sadie’s friend texted her to ask if they would be willing to foster a child that a couple she knew was thinking about for themselves.
At first, the couple was apprehensive since they had been instructed by a caseworker to look after the child while the mother sought therapy. The couple was concerned that they would grow overly devoted to the child. But soon after, the narrative was altered.
The caseworker stated, “The birth mother decided she would prefer you guys adopt the child instead.”
“Holy crap!!” was the first thing Sadie uttered out loud when she learned she was expecting a child.
“Overnight, we went from not having any kids to possibly fostering one to, ‘You guys are parents!’” Still in shock, I listened to the caseworker as she spoke. After hanging up, I dialed my spouse! “Baby!” They desire that we adopt the child! They want us to have kids,” I cried out. Hold on! Really? He exclaimed, “I assumed they just wanted us to foster him.” “Nope!” “They want us to be his parents,” I remarked.
Over the weekend, the couple not only processed the surprising news but also braced themselves in case the mother had second thoughts.
On Monday, the mother not only expressed her desire for them to adopt the child, but also stated that she was prepared to sign the adoption papers independently.
At 33 weeks, their son had been born—seven weeks ahead of schedule. His weight was 4 lbs. 5 oz. Sadie writes, “He fit in one of my husband’s hands.”
Sadie said, “He was so small, swaddled in a white blanket with stripes of pink and blue.” He was early, therefore he couldn’t eat on his own, thus an NG tube was coming out of his nose. But my goodness, was he adorable!
The couple was urged to create a registry after they announced their announcement on social media. In just three days, 55 of the 72 goods they had advertised had been purchased.
Following the adoption of Ezra Lee, which was completed in October 2020, the couple had the cutest family portraits shot, sporting t-shirts that said, “Families don’t have to match.”
Through embryo donation, Sadie and Jarvis became parents to twin twins, Destinee and Journey, in 2021. The black couple, adhering to their family credo, “Families don’t have to match,” gave birth to three white children: two girls and one boy.
There is just one reaction for anyone who judges this lovely family: love is the strongest foundation there is.
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