Sadie and Jarvis Sampson: A Journey to Parenthood Beyond Expectations
Sadie and Jarvis Sampson spent years trying to conceive, exhausting every option before they came to terms with the idea that their path to parenthood might look different. Then, an unexpected text message changed everything overnight.
The couple, married in January 2018, initially tried to conceive naturally. When that didn’t work, they turned to every method they could think of: ovulation tests, prenatal vitamins, fertility tracking apps, and fertility monitors.
“We even tried the unsolicited advice of friends, family, and strangers to ‘just relax.’ For 14 months, we tried, prayed, and waited. Month after month, we faced negative pregnancy tests. It felt like we were running out of options,” Sadie shared with Love What Matters.
Doctors offered little guidance, often advising Sadie to lose weight to increase her chances of conceiving. Determined, Sadie underwent gastric surgery and successfully lost 28 pounds. Her OBGYN was thrilled and told her, “If you’re not pregnant within six months, I’ll refer you to a fertility specialist.”
Despite the weight loss and renewed hope, pregnancy still didn’t happen. “I felt like I was born to be a mother,” Sadie admitted. “But even after everything, we had to accept that we might only ever be an aunt and uncle.”
A Life-Changing Text
Just as they began to let go of their dream, Sadie received a text from a friend asking if they’d consider fostering a baby. The baby’s biological parents were unable to care for him, and the caseworker initially asked them to foster while the mother sought treatment.
The couple hesitated, afraid of growing attached to a child they might not be able to keep. But soon, the story took a surprising turn: “The birth mom decided she would like you guys to adopt the child instead,” the caseworker told them.
“Holy crap!” Sadie recalled exclaiming. “We went from being childless to being told, ‘You guys are parents!’ overnight.”
The weekend was filled with excitement, nerves, and cautious optimism as they waited to see if the birth mother would change her mind. But by Monday, it was official: the mother wanted them to adopt her son through an independent adoption.
Their baby boy, Ezra Lee, was born prematurely at 33 weeks, weighing just 4 pounds, 5 ounces. “He was so tiny, he literally fit in one of my husband’s hands,” Sadie recalled.
Building a Family That Doesn’t Have to Match
The Sampsons shared their adoption story on social media, and friends and family rallied around them, purchasing 55 out of 72 items from their baby registry in just three days.
Ezra’s adoption was finalized in October 2020. The family celebrated the occasion with matching t-shirts that read, “Families don’t have to match.”
In 2021, the Sampsons’ family grew again when they welcomed twin girls, Journee and Destinee, through embryo donation. Staying true to their family motto, this Black couple became proud parents to three white children: Ezra, Journee, and Destinee.
When faced with judgment or curiosity about their family dynamic, Sadie and Jarvis have one clear message: their family is built on the strongest foundation possible—love.
Their story is a powerful reminder that families come in all shapes, sizes, and colors, and that love knows no boundaries. Please share their inspiring journey with others.
Unlock the Secret Function of the Small Round Hole on Your Nail Clipper
Nearly every household has a pair of nail clippers. These handy tools are primarily used for trimming nails, and sometimes even snipping thread. But have you ever noticed the small round hole on some nail clippers? You might be surprised to learn it has a few clever uses! Many people don’t know about this hidden feature, but once you understand its purpose, you’ll want to give it a try. Let’s explore what it can do!
One use for the small hole is to attach a keychain to your nail clippers. By securing it with a keychain, you can keep the clippers with your keys, ensuring you’ll never misplace them (unless all your keys go missing). Some nail clippers even come with a small chain specifically for this purpose. However, those chains can sometimes detach easily, so it’s often better to attach a keychain directly through the hole for a more secure hold.
The small hole can also help with wire bending. By threading wire through it, you gain extra leverage to bend the wire with ease, reducing the effort needed. This trick is especially helpful when you need to bend or break wire without putting too much strain on your fingers.
Another handy feature of nail clippers is the small metal piece that often surrounds the hole. This piece can be used for cleaning dirt from under your nails but also doubles as a mini screwdriver for small screws. It can save you in a pinch when you don’t have the right tools on hand—just give the screw a few turns, and it’ll loosen up.
Lastly, the sharp edge of the nail file on your clippers can even be used to slice through packing tape on boxes. With these tips, you can get much more out of your nail clippers than just trimming nails!
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