Shithead and Sarah have been like famiIy to my wife and I for several years, practically ever since we moved in across the street from them. The four of us were extremely tight. Our kids are the same age as theirs and are all good friends. We were one big family unit. We did dinner together a few times a week. We went on vacations together.
I truly saw Shithead as a brother, and my wife and Sarah were very close too.
Five months ago, I was completely blindsided by the discovery of an affair between my wife and Shithead. My wife had left her emaiI open on our computer, and I saw an email from her to her longtime therapist saying that Shithead would be joining her at an upcoming session “again.”
Uh, WTF? My mind started racing – why in the world would Shithead be going to her therapy sessions without my knowledge? I did a search and found some other emails to and from the therapist proving that Shithead had been going to sessions together with her for about six weeks.
I checked our mobile phone account and discovered that, since late summer, they had been exchanging hundreds of texts every day, peaking at nearIy 500/day by the holidays. Speaking of the holidays, my wife and I hosted both of our families (parents, siblings, etc) for both Thanksgiving and Christmas dinner, and Shithead and Sarah joined us either for dinner or after dinner on both holidays.
Text records showed that the entire time that they were at our house celebrating with our families, my wife and Shithead were texting each other across the room. They were doing that pretty much every time the four of us hung out, for months. And, you know, all day every day just in generaI. But what bothers me the most is that they were doing it with Sarah and I right there.
I confronted my wife with the evidence and she admitted that yes, she and Shithead had fallen in love. “It just happened! I don’t know how! But I love him and I just don’t feeI anything for you anymore, I’m sorry!” They had gone on a school district trip together, something had happened in her hotel room, and things had moved quickly from there. She explained, as I lay face-down on the couch, unable to look at her, that they had already made plans to move out and divorce me and Sarah, and while they didn’t plan to move in together immediately because of the kids, they’d probably do so eventually.
The meetings with the therapist were supposedly mostly for the purpose of finding a way to break this to me and Sarah as gently as possible, because they were so very concerned for our well-being. (Sarah and I are fairly certain that they weren’t pIanning on telling us about the affair at all, and were simply going to “discover” their feelings for one another several months down the line, after they’d come up with some other reason to divorce the two of us.)
My wife moved out two months ago. I was, and still am, utterly destroyed. I cry every day. I cried writing the first few paragraphs of this story just now. I worry non-stop about the impact on our kids. But I am also not exactly a shrinking vioIet when I feel that I’ve been wronged. And in this case I was, objectively, very very wronged.
So, a couple of years ago, Shithead ran for a Board of Education seat as a pretty extreme underdog. I helped him with his campaign materials and debate prep, and my wife, a well-known school district employee (this becomes important later), got the word out as best she couId. Much to our surprise, he actually won in a squeaker, by just a few dozen votes.
Being on the Board became the center of Shithead’s world. He joined every committee that he could. This turned into the foundation of his affair with my wife, as they were constantly going to school events and meetings together on evenings and weekends.
Once I discovered the affair, my thoughts turned pretty quickly to revenge, and it occurred to me that an extramarital affair between a member of the Board of Education and an employee of the school district was at least bad poIitics and possibly vioIated district policy. Making things far worse for them was that my wife was in the running for an open administrative position, and everyone knew that she was more or less guaranteed the job and the major pay raise that came with it. She had just finished her master’s degree in school administration, at the urging of her principal and the superintendent, so that she could be promoted to this specific position.
I had plenty of evidence of the affair – texts from both of them admitting to it, text records showing that they were texting hundreds of times a day, emails to and from the therapist, etc. I considered simply emailing all of the evidence to the Board and the superintendent, but felt like I, as the grieving, betrayed spouse, might not be seen as a credible source.
So instead, I invented a fictitious “furious friend” who was planning on showing up to the next Board meeting and publicly shaming the two of them for their affair. I told my wife that I’d tried to taIk this person down but couldn’t guarantee that they wouldn’t show up and humiliate them publicly. As I expected, this led Shithead to conclude that the only option was for him to preemptively admit the affair to the Board. The superintendent subsequently recommended that Shithead resign, which he did. Sarah said that he was utterly humiliated and crushed, and barely got out of bed for a few days afterward.
Once word of the affair and Shithead’s resignation started getting around, the superintendent (a longtime friend of both my wife and Shithead) contacted my wife and tearfully informed her that it was no Ionger politically appropriate for her to be promoted to an administrative position within the district.
The position that had been lined up for her was later filled by an outside candidate. This sent waves of confusion and rumor throughout the district, as it was pretty well-known that my wife was getting the job. The day after she was informed that she wasn’t getting the promotion, my wife and I, despite our crumbling marriage, took our son out to breakfast together on his birthday, and a parent stopped by our table to congratulate her on her new roIe. She said thanks, then excused herself to go cry in the bathroom for a while.
I let the dust settle for a couple of weeks, and then, right before my wife moved out, let them in on my little secret – there was never a “furious friend” threatening to expose them in the first place. Just me.
Word of all of this has gotten around our fairly small town, which Shithead grew up in and my wife has worked in for nearly 20 years. My wife refuses to taIk to me about how things are at work now, but I’ve heard from some people I know in the district that her formerly spotless reputation has taken a major hit.
Shithead, formerly a gregarious social presence in our neighborhood and at events and pubs in town, has completely gone underground and barely emerges to mow his lawn. He’s moving out soon, to a shitty little townhouse which is all he can afford due to all the child support he’s going to have to pay his wife.
My wife and Shithead claim that they plan on trying to make things work together, despite all the public humiliation. I wish them lots of Iuck with that. I’m sure it will be a lot of fun to show their faces together in town.
Zac Efron Revealed His «Hot» Body Causes Him Body Image Issues
Zac Efron, the acclaimed actor known for his versatility and dedication to his craft, has stunned audiences time and again with his remarkable body transformations. Beyond his acting prowess, Efron’s ability to push physical boundaries and embody diverse characters has become a hallmark of his career. From his iconic role in High School Musical to his latest portrayal of wrestler Kevin Von Erich in the upcoming film, The Iron Claw, Efron continues to captivate audiences with his commitment to authenticity on screen.
He underwent a significant body transformation for his new role.
In his latest endeavor, The Iron Claw, Zac Efron embraces his most challenging role yet. Portraying the complex character of Kevin Von Erich, Efron delves into themes of strength and familial strife, delivering a performance that promises to resonate deeply with audiences. To embody the role, Efron underwent a rigorous physical transformation, emerging with a physique that epitomizes dedication and discipline.
Efron’s journey to embody Kevin Von Erich prompted profound introspection on the concept of masculinity. In a dynamic world where definitions are in constant flux, Efron recognizes the fluidity of masculinity and its evolving nature. Through The Iron Claw, he explores a particular manifestation of masculinity that resonates with his personal journey, reflecting on the significance of physicality and its intersection with identity.
This isn’t the first time he has trained hard to reshape his body.
While The Iron Claw marks Efron’s latest physical transformation, it is not his first foray into reshaping his body for a role. In the 2017 film Baywatch, Efron underwent a significant metamorphosis, solidifying his reputation as a committed performer. Transitioning from a vegan diet to intermittent fasting, Efron embraced a holistic approach to fitness, prioritizing both nutrition and training.
Efron’s dedication to his craft has not been without its challenges. The intense demands of preparing for Baywatch took a toll on his physical and mental well-being, leading to struggles with sleep and mental health. Reflecting on this experience, Efron acknowledges the importance of balance and self-care, recognizing the need to prioritize holistic wellness amid the pressures of performance.
«I started intermittent fasting just after I stopped being vegan. My body wasn’t processing the vegetables in the right way,» he explained.
Starting his day with a burst of cardio, he breaks his fast around 11 am with a nourishing spread: bone broth soup alongside a colorful array of vegetables and «clean proteins» such as elk and chicken. As the sun sets, his evening meal takes center stage, featuring a hearty portion of meat accompanied by wholesome carbohydrates like sweet potatoes or quinoa.
In a delightful twist, he’s reintroduced organ meats into his diet, expressing a fondness for the classic combo of liver and onions. Since his Baywatch days, Zac has transformed, adopting numerous healthier habits to sculpt his physique with greater emphasis on well-being
His daily routine led to sleep disturbances and depression.
Jeremy Allen White, who starred alongside Zac Efron in The Iron Claw, couldn’t help but admire Efron’s unwavering commitment to his craft. Speaking to Esquire, White lauded Efron, describing him as a «maniac» in the best possible way, showcasing unparalleled focus and expertise in training and dieting.
Efron’s journey towards a healthier lifestyle began with the demanding physical and mental challenges he faced during his transformation for Baywatch. The toll it took on him was immense, leading to sleep disturbances and a prolonged battle with depression.
The body appeared flawless, but the health was in disarray.
The aftermath of this intense experience left Efron feeling burnt out and struggling to regain his footing. Reports suggested that prolonged use of diuretics contributed to his difficulties. Following the completion of filming, Efron made a deliberate decision to step back from acting, allowing himself to relax and intentionally deviate from his usual fitness regimen for the first time in years.
Despite the challenges he has faced, Zac Efron emerges from each transformation with newfound resilience and insight. As he continues to evolve as an actor and a person, Efron remains committed to pushing boundaries and exploring the depths of his craft. With each role, he invites audiences to join him on a journey of self-discovery, challenging perceptions and redefining what it means to embody strength and authenticity on screen.
Achieving optimal health isn’t solely about enduring demanding workouts. Contrary to common belief, sustaining wellness requires a comprehensive approach encompassing balanced nutrition, ample rest, and overall well-being.
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